10 Common Sex Mistakes That Men Make

Wondering why you don't seem to be able to seal the deal with women?

Perhaps you are making one or more of these 10 mistakes below;

1. Getting Too Intimate

When it comes to verbal seduction, less is more. You might think it's what she wants to hear, but letting the conversation turn too sappy the first time you coax her back to your place gets awkward, fast. Don't overdo the compliments—a simple, "You're really gorgeous/hot," will do it. Resist the urge to discuss your future together. Right now is the time to be the strong and silent type.

SHOCKING: Heartless Governor Adams Oshiomhole Tells Pleading Widow "G O AND DIE!"(PHOTOS & VIDEO)

This can best be described as the most shocking remark ever made by a State Governor to a poor woman. The heart of a man who can say such things, especially in front of a huge crowd and cameras is desperately wicked.

This video shows Governor Adams Oshiomhole ostensibly leading officials of the state to sanitize the city of Benin, the Edo State capital. In the course of his tour of duty, he came across a widow roadside hawker.

The poor widow knelt before the imperial governor, a former labour leader, begging for her little means of livelihood to be saved. She pleaded that she's a widow..

ASUU STRIKING: AAUA VC Recruits New People To Replace Striking Lecturers

The academic war between Management of Adekunle Ajasin University, Akungba-Akoko (AAUA) in Ondo State and its striking lecturers has deepened following a report that the Vice-Chancellor of the institution, Prof. Femi Mimiko has commenced recruitment of new lecturers to replace the striking lecturers, having refused to pull out of the ongoing Academic Staff Union of Universities’ (ASUU) strike.

PHOTOS: Nollywood Actress Daniella Chioma Okeke’s FAKE Boobs And Ass EXPOSED. She Is Full Of Silicon And Butt Injections (PROOF)

Daniella Okeke, the star of Emem Isong’s much awaited flick, Lagos Cougar, has been causing stir with her voluptuous booty and gigantic boobs. Those who knew her just a few months ago will tell that there is a huge change in the actress. The actress wasn’t this curvaceous which means there may be clear indications that she underwent a complete plastic surgery on her boobs and booty

PHOTO: Girl Takes Off Her Clothés to mimic Olamide's 'BaddestGuyEverLiveth' Album cover Gun Man pose

 

REVEALED: Estimated N30M Spent on Tiwa-TeeBillz Traditiona​l Wedding Ceremony

Weeks ago Tee-Billz mentioned in an interview that he was planning for a small wedding. However, last weekend Lagos saw   the wedding which now records as one of the most star-studded weddings in recent times.

The traditional wedding ceremony of popular singer, Tiwa Savage and her manager/hubby, Tunji ‘Tee-Billz’ Balogun may have gulped nothing less than N30m, by NET’s calculation.

Starting with the invitation cards, For Tiwa’s personality and status in the society, there’s no doubt that the couple would have been looking at over a thousand guests. The Fuchsia and gold coloured invitation card came with small access cards for entry into the venue, all packed in a beautifully designed paper bag. 500 pieces of the package costing an average of N5,000 each amounts to N2.5million. Courier company, Compton Green Express delivered the bag to the guests, and that’s a service that the couple would have had to pay for too. For more highlights....

PHOTO: 2face In Search Of Missing Wife

Tuface Idibia and his wife, Annie Idibia are obviously missing each other as they took to their instagram page to show their affection.

Annie Idibia is currently in the United states to deliver her second child for Tuface.

Dont you just love this couple?
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13 Signs You Are Mentally Strong

Mentally strong people have healthy habits. They manage their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in ways that set them up for success in life.

Check out these things that mentally strong people don’t do so that you too can become more mentally strong.

See Why Peter Okoye Married His Wife Lola, Who Is Older Than Him

I bet many of you dont know that Peter Okoye's wife lola amotayo is older than him,we have some of the reasons we think peter did what he did.

Maybe this is one of the reasons Jude is against their union.

SEE REASONS FROM EXTRACTED FROM MJ's DIARYBELOW......

Pics: Tiwa Savage & Teebillz step out at MTV Base Shuga premiere

Newly wed couple, Tiwa Savage and TeeBillz made their first appearance as a couple at the MTV Base Shuga premiere which held yesterday, November 26^th at the Silverbird Galleria in VI. Lagos.

Tiwa who plays the role of club owner, Sade in the third season of the award winning drama series joined a host of other celebrities like Basketmouth, Banky W, Bovi, Alex Ekubo, OC Ukeje, Uru Eke, Damilola Adegbite, Toolz and others to witness the premiere of the first Shuga season ever shot in Nigeria. See more photos of the hot couple after the cut...

It's official! BBA contestants Beverly Osu and Bimp are a couple!

This is not hearsay or rumour o...it's fact! BBA The Chase contestants Beverly Osu and Bimp from Ethiopia are dating. They currently live together at a temporary place in Lekki. Bimp is planning to stay in Nigeria for good if all his plans go well. He will return to Ethiopia tomorrow while Beverly goes to South Africa for the Channel O awards but as soon as she returns to Nigeria, Bimp will return to his love. I hear they are totally mad for each other! Go Bev! This is a hotter catch than Angelo!

Akeem Sodeinde's Movida night club set to re-open this Friday

The grand re-opening of Club Movida is happening this weekend Friday 29^th  and Saturday 30th November. The club which is situated at 18A Idowu Taylor Street by Law School, Victoria Island will host international and celebrity DJs, plus appearances from special guests and beautiful women. The strictly by invitation event will offer party-goers the opportunity to experience the newly refurbished venue. The new venue design is certified to give clubbers a world class club experience.

 

Lamar Odom reportedly demands $10m to end his marriage to Khloe

This report is from National Enquirer so maybe y'all should take it with a pinch of salt..:-). They are  claiming Lamar is demanding $10million in hush money from Khloe plus he wants his ring back..

From The National Enquirer 

Lamar Odom is demanding $10m to end his 4-year marriage to Khloe Kardashian!

Sources say the troubled NBA star has also taken a page out of his fellow hoopster Kris Humphries’ playbook by demanding Khloe’s $875,000 engagement ring back before he’ll agree to zip his lips about the K-clan’s secrets. Humphries got Kim Kardashian to return her $2 million engagement ring as part of their divorce agreement following their 72- day marriage in 2011. Odom, 34, laid out his conditions after “momager” Kris Jenner ordered Khloe, 29, to sit down with their attorneys and hammer out a divorce deal, an insider says.

Kanye has gone mad! Goes ballistic on radio show (watch video)

Kanye West is gradually losing it...and yes it's still a laughing matter. Despite recent reports that he's lost popularity by 66%, he still thinks he's the best thing since...

While criticizing big corporations and especially Nike for not giving him much backing for his Nike Air Yeezy sneaker collaboration project on Sway in the Morning, Kanye said: 

"I am standing up and I'm telling you I am Warhol. I am the number one most impactful artist of our generation. I am Shakespeare in the flesh, Walt Disney. And who's going to be the Medici family and stand up and let me create more? Or do you want to marginalize me till I'm out of my moment."

When radio host Sway asked him why he won't empower himself instead of begging corporations to back him, Kanye went absolutely ballistic! Y'all need to watch the video. Find it after the cut...

Comedian Julius Agwu sues Etisalat for N100m over blocked line

Comedian Julius Agwu has dragged telecoms giant Etisalat to court for blocking his business line. He is demanding for N100million as compensation for jobs lost, contact lost, for the inconveniences, and for being mistreated by Etisalat staff. Below is a statement from his lawyer, Festus Keyamo...

Photo: Rapper Wale live at Mavin Studio with D'banj and Don Jazzy

Olamide and Kay Switch are also in the pic. Hopefully we will be getting new music from Don Jazzy and D'banj. See more photos after the cut...

Photos: Did You Know OJB's First Wife Donated Her Kidney To Him?

Yes she did. OJB's first wife (He has two others) and mother of his oldest children Mabel Okungbowa, popularly known as Mamma J donated her kidney to the renowned musician and music producer. What a great thing to do. I duff my hat to her! The successful kidney transplant took place on October 21st in India and OJB got discharged from the hospital a week later. 

OJB and his wife stayed in an accommodation close to the hospital where he continued to go for his post-operative check ups with his doctors. OJB has been given a clean bill of health and will be returning to Nigeria soon.

Abimbola Fashola Shares: How I Survived Breast Cancer

Wife of Lagos State Governor, Babatunde Fashola, Dame Abimbola Fashola, has revealed how she escaped the dreaded breast cancer.

Wife of Lagos State Governor, Dame Abimbola Fashola

Speaking at a ceremony to mark the first round of the Integrated Statewide Wellness Health Week, at Rauf Aregbesola Hospital in Mosan Okunola Local Council Development Area, Alimosho, Lagos, western Nigeria, Mrs. Fashola said consistent screening and early detection saved her from the disease.

“Early detection made me survive breast cancer. I was able to survive it through early detection and screening.

This year alone, I know about six people that have died of breast cancer and it did not warn them.

All of them died in the spate of one month. Only God knows what would have happened if I had not detected mine on time,” Mrs. Fashola said.

The highlights of the programme let the residents of Alimosho to undergo free health screening for diabetes, hypertension, prostate, cervix and breast cancer.

Mrs. Fashola noted the importance of the free health programme in all the 20 local governments and 37 local council development areas, emphasizing the fact that the diseases (which she referred to as silent killers) can be treated or managed successfully, if detected early.

“For years, we have witnessed on a regular basis and separate times awareness and screening programmes specifically for hypertension, diabetes, breast, cervical and prostate cancers.

This new initiative tagged ‘Statewide Wellness Health Week,’ is a welcome idea that will integrate into one all screening and awareness of the five diseases for both men and women at the same time,”she stated.

The Lagos First Lady called on both men and women to take advantage of the unique opportunity the week-long integrated health screening offered.

She urged residents to cultivate the habit of visiting primary health centres for their health needs.

“Please be aware that these diseases do not present any noticeable symptoms until at the late stages, then it will be too expensive to treat and manage and could lead to loss of life and bread winners,” she added.

In his remark at the occasion, the chairman of the council, Mr. Abiodun Mafe, said the rate at which Nigerians die of non-communicable diseases calls for serious concern.

He called on residents to seize the opportunity of the free health screening to do a thorough medical check-up to know their health status.

“The event is not fun-fair but a programme aimed at bringing awareness to our people between the age of 18 years and above about the killer diseases like hypertension, diabetes, cervical and breast cancers.

The World Health Organisation (WHO) statistics shows that 22 percent of the Nigerian population are affected by high blood pressure. It is called silent killer because it does not show sign or symptoms till it might be too late,” he said.

The LCDA boss also noted that the proliferation of fake blood pressure measuring devices in the Nigerian market and brand of noodles people consume had put Nigerians at risk of terminal diseases.

He urged residents of all the 20 LGAs and 37 LCDAs to come out en-mass for the free health screening that will last till Friday, 29 November, 2013.

The Deputy Governor, Mrs. Adejoke Orelope Adefulire (who was represented by the Permanent Secretary in the Ministry of Women Affairs and Poverty Alleviation) Mrs. Risikat Akiode, stated that it was in realization of the need to prevent the killer diseases that the state government initiated the wellness health week aimed for the screening of hypertension and diabetes as well as prostate, cervix and breast cancers across the state.

She explained that hypertension, diabetes and cancers are some of the non communicable diseases that have become prevalent and responsible for over 60 percent of deaths in the world, adding that if this trend continues unchecked, the diseases are expected to account for 73 percent of deaths and 60 percent of the disease burden in the year 2020.

“It is against this background that our administration has come up with this initiative, which also aims to increase the tempo of sensitization and awareness to maximally help prevent, reduce these diseases and improve the health status of Lagosians”, Orelope-Adefulire said.
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Remember Maheeda? She Is Back With Even More Raunchy PHOTOS

When we hear the name Maheeda, we know that some semi-naked photos are to follow. This article is not an exclusion.

The self-proclaimed Nigerian gospel singer Maheeda is not going to disappoint her fans with NOT posting such raunchy pictures.

She shared some new photos of herself via Instagram. Check them out below.

PHOTOS: Mysterious River With Healing Powers Appears In Enugu Community. What do you think?

A river with healing powers mysteriously appeared in Nachi, a community in Udi Local Government Area of Enugu State.

Already named 'Orimiri Jordan' (River Jordan) it has become a Pilgrimage Centre, playing host to people from all parts of Nigeria.

Countless testimonies abound as Nigerians struggle to dip themselves into the River.

According to reports, it all started on the 11th day of November 2013 when a Fulani herdsman ran to the community and announced how water covered the place just few minutes after he passed.

“He told us that he passed that place with his herd of cattle and soon after, heard a strange noise; when he turned back, he discovered that a big stream has appeared at the same place he just passed with his cattle. At that point, he ran to Garki and informed his relatives, who also came there and discovered that the water had healing power. From that point, the news spread to the community”, a source disclosed.

Speaking on the origin of the river, the traditional ruler of Nachi community, His Royal Highness, Igwe F.O Onuigbo, Obi II of Nachi, said at his palace that the mystery River was older than him.

He said “I used to pass through that area to attend school at Inyi-Achi in Oji River, in the early 40s. In those days, there is no water there, the only thing you see there is white sand. But once you get there and you are thirsty, all you need to do is to scratch the surface of the land and ask if for water, water will full your hand immediately if you are an upright person, but if you are evil, no water will come out. That has been the situation”.

Another octogenarian, Chief Festus Ude said “later, we noticed that after some years, the water will form a stream there and would disappear in few weeks. If such happens, we will be fetching water there. However, women who are menstruating and evil people don’t go there. We never heard about healing power of the River until this recent appearance of the River.

“The last time it appeared was in 1992, and at that time, it just formed a small stream, which later disappeared. It has never been as large as this. This is all I know, we have never known about its healing power, this is the first time we are hearing about healing, I don’t know whether it is true, we equally heard it like you”.

Commercial motorcycle operators, popularly called “Okada”, photographers and petty traders, are already making business out of it.

Right at the junction leading to the location of the “Jordan River”, the visitor is presented with a scene of a busy motor park, where hawkers, food vendors, transporters and okada riders battle for customers.

On the other side of the road, cans of various sizes are displayed for those who came empty handed. From that point, you park your vehicle, mount on Okada and the journey begins.

According to motorcyclist, “I have a vulcanizing shop at the Nachi Market, but when this new business came, I had to close the shop temporarily so that I can also make money here. I hardly make N1000 a day there in my shop, but since I joined this Okada transport to the Enugu Jordan River, I make no less than N10, 000 every day. One of my friends called my attention to it, and I will forever be grateful to him”.

 

The okada operators charge their passengers fares ranging from N500 to N1000 depending on their bargaining power.

On getting to the River, another business scene welcomes you. Here, apart from those hawking snacks, photographers are not left out. This presents the place as not just a miracle centre, but a tourist centre. While some of the visitors dip themselves or swim in the River, the photographers take shots, get the pictures ready immediately at the cost of N200 depending on the number of exposures.

One of the photographers said that they make between N20, 000 to N40, 000 every day.

“You can see that some people come for fun, not just in search of miracle but to see the mysterious River. So when such people come, they request for shots and it has really provided us with good business here.

Sources disclosed that many visitors had testified to all forms of miracles after visiting the place.

People of all ages, with all forms of ailments are being assisted by their relatives and friends to dip themselves into the River.

A can seller at the entrance said “my house help was suffering from enlarged scrotum; we were trying to raise money to go to University of Nigeria Teaching Hospital before a friend told me about this place. We brought the boy here and by the time we went home, he was fully healed, that was how I started selling empty cans here”.

Another visitor, a civil servant, who identified himself as James told our correspondent that he came after neighbours told him about the healing power of the water.

“I heard about people who had difficulties in walking but they got healed after visiting this place; I also heard of people who regained their sight after visiting this place; I am just coming out from the River and I believed that I am free of any form of sickness and challenges”.

Meanwhile, the crowd of anxious Nigerians seeking for miraculous solutions to their problems has continued to surge into the River.

Even security agents are not left behind as some of them were seen either with their water cans or aiding their loved ones into the River.

However, the water is expected to also dry up any time in the same mysterious way as it came.
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PHOTO: [S*xy] or [Trashy] What do you think???

What do we call this? .....View full image after the cut

Is this the latest definition of Miss Independent?

30 Questions to Help If You Have Doubts About Your Relationship (Feel free to ask questions and I'll respond)

“Your mind will answer most questions if you learn to relax and wait for the answer.” ~William S. Burroughs

One of the best life lessons I learned was from my beloved grandmother. She taught me to never be afraid to ask questions.
She would often look at me with her warm,  eyes and say, “The best way to learn, to gain clarity is to ask questions. Never take anything at face value.”
Even as an adult today, the truth of her wisdom continues to prove itself.
The beauty of constant questioning is that it is often the fastest path to enlightenment. It leads you to search for answers. It encourages you to be more proactive in your life.
When I was in college, I could only afford to visit my family during summer and Christmas breaks. While I was at home, I particularly enjoyed spending time with one dear friend. We had known each other since junior high school, and I considered her the younger sister I never had.
During my sophomore year in school, she contacted me and revealed she had romantic feelings for me. She wanted us to start dating.
I was completely caught off guard. I had no idea she felt this way. Sensing my conflict, she asked that I think about it, and said we would talk when I saw her that summer.
For the remainder of that semester, I agonized over what I should do. One night, my grandmother’s wisdom began echoing in my mind. What did I want?
Alone in my dorm room, I took a deep breath and asked myself very important questions that I needed to answer, but had been avoiding. Did I share the same feelings she had for me? Did I want us to begin dating?
By being still and questioning myself, I gained access to my inner voice, which I had been drowning out in my panic.
It revealed that while I did love her, I wasn’t in love with her. Pursuing a relationship primarily out of fear of loosing her would have been unfair to both of us, and it would have caused us to not live in truth.
That summer was difficult. When I told her how I truly felt, she was understandably hurt. However, our friendship survived because we both realized we cared enough to be brutally honest with each other, and that is rare.
To this day, I sometimes wonder what would have happened if I didn’t heed grandmother’s wisdom, and had reacted out of fear instead of stopping to question my true feelings.
If you are having doubts about a relationship, please let me assure you the answers you seek are within you. You just may be allowing fear to muffle your inner voice.

The following are 30 questions that can help you achieve more clarity about your relationship—what’s working, what’s not, and why. Please keep in mind there are no wrong or right answers, just insightful ones:
1. Do you completely trust each other?

2. Do you believe in soul mates, and if so, do you believe you are each other’s?

3. When was the last time you said, “I love you?” If it’s been a while, why?

4. Are you satisfied with the intimacy you share?

5. How often do you laugh together?

6. Do you feel you have made personal sacrifices for your relationship, and have they been reciprocated?

7. When you think of your partner, do you smile?

8. Do you feel threatened when others find your partner attractive, and why?

9. Do you believe your partner is your biggest advocate?

10. How do you feel about your partner’s views on finances?

11. Do you enjoy spending time with your partner’s relatives? Friends?

12. Do either of you dredge up resentments in arguments, and why have you struggled to let them go?

13. How do you feel when your partner arrives home after being away?

14. Is your partner your best friend?

15. Is there a secret you are keeping that if your partner knew, you feel you would lose them?

16. Do you feel that your partner accepts you?

17. When did you realize you had fallen in love, and how do you feel when you think about it?

18. Have you seen each other at your best and worst?

19. Would you ever consider having an affair? Why? Why not?

20. Are you excited about your future together?

21. Do you feel your relationship is a true partnership?

22. When was your last romantic outing?

23. Does it bother you if your partner has friends of the opposite sex, and why?

24. Do you accept each other’s belief systems?

25. When was the last time you talked about your future together, and were you on the same page?

26. Do you feel as if you can communicate without saying a word?

27. What is your happiest memory of your time together? Your worst? Are there more happy memories than unhappy ones?

28. What is a relationship deal breaker for you, and have you overlooked one in this relationship?

29. How do you feel about the last, in-depth conversation you and your partner had?

30. Do you show your love for each other often, and if not, why?

If you are seeking clarity about your relationship, the best source of insight is from within. You just need to be unafraid to ask for the answers you seek. Then trust those answers and yourself.

Wishing you much love and success! And remember, feel free to ask questions and I'll respond